
Last week on this blog, in the aftermath of two highly covered hearings at the
Supreme Court
on same-sex unions, I posted on the problem of widespread sexual
confusion and misbehavior in our culture, both heterosexual and
homosexual.
As you may know, and can certainly imagine the combox lit up.
There were many comments of support and agreement. There were also
quite a large number of strong protests to the post. Some of those sed contras
and objections were thoughtful, but, frankly most were not, and
contained the all too usual name calling and ridicule that characterizes
modern discourse, especially on the Internet.
But perhaps one aspect of the thread deserves some further attention is the what the Church offers homosexuals.
For, the claim is often made that the Catholic Church has “nothing to
offer” Gay persons, homosexuals or the slightly wider group often called
the LGBT community.
Of course this claim has a kind of rhetorical flourish
built in since it would appear that, in order to have “something to
offer” we would have to meet a rather specific list of demands, wherein
we essentially set aside biblical, theological and natural law teaching,
and embrace homosexual activity as natural, normal, and even virtuous.
This we cannot do. And thus, many of our modern critics engage in kind of all-or-nothing approach which demands 100% approval, or by definition we have “nothing to offer.”
Nevertheless to some of good
will who might still be willing to hear an answer of what the Church
offers, I think it helpful to offer an answer to the question,
“What does the Church offer Gay People?”
To begin, the Church offers Gay people what she offers anyone else: the truth of God’s Word authoritatively interpreted, the Sacraments of Salvation, a
vision
for life, and the witness and support of the communal life, a communion
with those now living as well as with the ancients whose voice and
witness we still revere. We also offer respect rooted in truth.
Lets look at each of these areas in more detail:
1. As to the truth of God’s Word, St. Paul eloquently said to the critics of his own day:
We do not use
deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the contrary, by
setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to everyone’s
conscience in the sight of God. (2 Cor 4:2)
Allow me to speak personally as a pastor of souls and say
that to anyone who will listen (whatever their orientation or
background), to anyone who draws near my parish, enters its doors and to
all whom I can reach in anyway, I strive to speak the Word of God
plainly, a Word set forth in Scripture and Sacred Tradition.
I will not, as St. Paul directs, distort the Word of God.
I will not gainsay (deny) it, neither will I abbreviate it, seek to
“expunge” it, nor can I permit it to be subsumed under human, political
or cultural agendas.
To the very best of my ability I seek, as St. Paul says, to set it forth plainly,
and commend myself to every person’s conscience. I seek the strength
and courage to preach the Gospel, in season and out of season, (cf 1 Tim
) and to preach the whole counsel of God.
It is first of all this that Church offers the Gay Community, and every other believer as well: the unabridged truth, preached in conformity with the Sacred Text and Sacred Tradition.
In preaching I am not looking to offend,
I am not seeking a fight. Rather, I am seeking to joyfully celebrate
the truth of the Gospel that I have come to find compelling and life
giving. And yet I realize that whatever my intentions, there are at time
people who do take offense at what I preach or teach. But that they
take offense, does not mean I have given offense, or intended to offend.
Again, let me emphasize, I cannot, as St. Paul says, distort God’s Word
as I have received it. I cannot and must not engage in deception or any
misrepresentation of God’s Word.
Sadly today there are some denominations and preachers which do distort God’s word to conform to modern agendas
such as affirming homosexual activity. They have been deceived and are
leading others into deception by distorting God’s clear word on the
sinfulness of homosexual acts (and many heterosexual acts such as
fornication, adultery, incest, and other disordered and unnatural sexual
practices that have become more common among heterosexuals today).
I do not have time
here to give a full discourse on the Biblical teaching against
homosexual acts, but I have written more on that here:
Letter on Homosexuality
But for this post suffice it to say that
there is nothing at all ambiguous about the clear and consistent
condemnation of homosexual activity at every stage of Scripture,
beginning in the earliest books, and going through every stage of
Scripture, right through to the very last book, Revelation. Attempts to
pretend that Scripture does not say what it clearly does say
are fanciful at best, and gravely sinful at worst. It is to indulge in
deception, and to likely lead others into that deception.
What the Catholic Church offers, in the first place to the Gay community and to every believer is the plain truth of Scripture.
We commend ourselves and God’s word to the conscience of every person.
We refuse to indulge in modern deceptions and speak the truth in love.
To those who
will say I am being judgmental, I will say only what Scripture says. I
do not need to make a judgment in this, God already has, and
His judgment is consistently and clearly stated that homosexual acts are
sinful and wrong. They cannot be approved of in any way. This is God’s
judgement not mine.
And to those
who insist on living at variance with God’s Word and even worse
encouraging, teaching and affirming others in doing so, God’s word says
that they have been deceived (2 Cor 4:2), that their minds have become darkened by the suppression of the truth (cf Rom 1:18,21), that The god of this age has blinded their minds, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel (2 Cor 4:4) and they have chosen to live as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their thinking (Eph 4:17).
Woe to those religious leaders who gainsay the word of God and mislead others. Of these Jesus says, Every
plant that my heavenly Father has not planted will be pulled up by the
roots. Leave them; they are blind guides. If the blind lead the blind,
both will fall into a pit. (Matt 15:13-14)
The Catholic Church offers to Gay Christians a refuge from all this deception and confusion in this matter. We
do not use deception, nor do we distort the word of God. On the
contrary, by setting forth the truth plainly we commend ourselves to
everyone’s conscience in the sight of God. (2 Cor 4:2)
The Church can say nothing other than what she has heard from the Lord. And thus we teach:
Homosexuality
refers to relations between men or between women who experience an
exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same
sex. It has taken a great variety of forms through the centuries and in
different cultures. Its psychological genesis remains largely
unexplained. Basing itself on Sacred Scripture, which presents
homosexual acts as acts of grave depravity,141 tradition has
always declared that “homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered.”
They are contrary to the natural law. They close the sexual act to the
gift of life. They do not proceed from a genuine affective and sexual
complementarity. Under no circumstances can they be approved. (Catechism # 2357)
2. In addition we in the Church offer the help of the Sacraments
which are like medicines to assist us in living in Christian freedom.
No aspect of the moral life is simple or easy in this sin-soaked world.
We are living in a fallen world, governed by a fallen angel, and we
ourselves have fallen natures. Thrice fallen we are not without help. We
have the Lord Jesus who speaks the truth to us and strengthens and
heals us with his Sacraments.
Of this I am a witness.
Having thus dedicated myself to prayer, scripture, the sacraments, and
to fellowship (Acts 2:42) I have seen my life changed. I am a new man. I
have seen sins put death and many graces come alive. I am more serene,
and confident, I more patient, zealous, chaste, merciful and forgiving. I
give God all the glory and praise him for this life he has given me
from the Cross and through his Church.
3. A Vision of Chaste Life - All
of this too the Church offers to the Gay community. Along with a vision
for life. And what is that vision? It is stated in the Catechism:
Homosexual
persons are called to chastity. By the virtues of self-mastery that
teach them inner freedom, at times by the support of disinterested
friendship, by prayer and sacramental grace, they can and should
gradually and resolutely approach Christian perfection (Catechism # 2359)
¥es, freedom to live chastely!
It is the same call that every other Christian has, Chasity. The
married are to remain faithful in mind, heart and body. They are not to
engaged in unnatural sexual practices in their marriage or to use
contraception. The unmarried are to live chastity by embracing celibacy.
Homosexuals cannot marry. There are also many heterosexuals who never
find their way to marriage. Celibacy is the call in cases like these.
This is the vision and this is the plan. The Church offers the celibate
life to those who cannot marry.
Now to those who may scoff, I want to say, I am a big believer in celibacy!
Although a heterosexual, I have, as priest, embraced celibacy as a way
of life. I am happy, fulfilled, and I have been successfully celibate
all my priesthood. I have never strayed with anyone, not once. I am a
witness that celibacy is both possible and wonderful.
Jesus was
celibate, Paul was celibate. And to those who are not now married, and
to those who can never marry, I commend celibacy to you and
promise you that you can and will live a full life, a happy life, and a
satisfied life in Christ Jesus by embracing the life he offers. As a
celibate, the door to marriage and sexual activity is closed, but many
other fulfilling things are opened, a life of service, and availability
that might not otherwise be possible.
The Church offers the celibate and chaste life to the Gay community.
The notion that happiness is not possible without sexual intercourse
and/or marriage is a lie perpetrated by a sex-crazed culture. I am a
witness that celibacy is good and fulfilling. I know also of many
others, parishioners, both Gay and Straight who successfully live
celibate lives and give witness to the grace of God in these matters.
4. Finally let me say, the Church offers respect and understanding rooted in truth to the Gay person.
Now of course there are some people in this world who demand outright
approval as the only way to show respect and understanding. With these
there is no reasoning. But to those disposed to listen, and accept that
understanding and respect are offered in the light of truth, the Church
has this to say:
The number of
men and women who have deep-seated homosexual tendencies is not
negligible. This inclination, which is objectively disordered,
constitutes for most of them a trial. They must be accepted with
respect, compassion, and sensitivity. Every sign of unjust
discrimination in their regard should be avoided. These persons are
called to fulfill God’s will in their lives and, if they are Christians,
to unite to the sacrifice of the Lord’s Cross the difficulties they may
encounter from their condition. (Catechism # 2358)
There are
some who would like to create that impression that the Catholic Church
has people at the door trying to spot and keep Gay people out. Or
that perhaps on discovery, they will be confronted and exposed to hate,
or that they will be singled out for special ridicule and rebuke.
They are not. I’ve got a Church full of sinners, starting with the guy in the pulpit.
And to those who come to the Catholic Church, there will be times where
we are all challenged in one way or another by God’s truth regarding
the sins to which we are most prone. There will also be times when we
are greatly consoled by that same truth in the struggles and heartaches
that most afflict us.
Good preaching comforts the afflicted and afflicts the comfortable.
And we are all in both categories. I and others do not go up and down
the aisles accusing or confronting people directly. I do not pry in
people’s personal business. I do not ask every young couple if they are
fornicating, or every business person if he is stealing.
I preach the gospel,
I preach the gospel that God loves us, and that he, by that love and
grace can save us from fornication, stealing, homosexual acts,
unkindness, unforgiveness, greed and so forth.
We are all called to freedom,
the glorious freedom of the Children of God. There are not separate
rules for Gay people, Straight people, or any other category. We are all
Children of God. Some of us are called to Marriage and child bearing,
some are not. Sex is for marriage, no exceptions. There is a dignity and
respect in the common call to live chastely, no matter who we are.
The Catholic Church has a lot to offer, to Gay people,
to all people: the truth, the sacraments, a vision for a chaste life,
and a fellowship of believers who offer support and encouragement to all
who will walk with us poor fellow sinners.